The month of May...

Help!!! I am freaking out. I just found out that my in-laws will be coming to spend a couple days, two days after we will have been gone for a week for a wedding 12 hours away. The biggest problem is... if I try to calm myself I shut down. If I let myself panic I am too scattered to organize my thoughts to prepare the house for company. I have a bunch of cleaning to do because we have two cats that I have trouble grooming, therefor hair is everywhere. I have a couple weeks before our trip, yet in between now and then I have a college graduation to attend, then help her move back to her mother's. I have a formal fundraiser for our local symphony to attend that last year had around 300 people at. Send me peaceful, organized thoughts, Please. and thank you. I think I need to go shopping for my dress for the fundraiser. I have an outfit for the wedding, still need something for the rehearsal dinner. Oh my. I have put on about 40lbs since last September and none of my old clothes fit. well I shouldn't say none. I kept a couple skirt and top outfits that stretch but they are dark colors not good for a May function. I also need comfy shoes, can't do sexy on my feet no more. Boohoo, scream, breathe!!! I can do this. You are all going to send me good, positive thoughts and I will keep breathing and I will do everything.